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FASD and Autism…

I was recently diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, too. About 3 weeks ago. I have not said anything, here because I don’t know how I feel. There is one thing to think you have something, but then you are actually diagnosed with it. I went through the same thing when a doctor said I had all the characteristics of someone with FASD. I knew that you could have both. I actually wondered if I did. I have heard that people with FASD can have both. I know both can have a lot of the same traits, but I had a neurologist ask me a bunch of questions and he said not only by my answers, but in observing me, he knew I had Autism. Hmmm. Someone asked me how I felt. I didn’t even answer. I really don’t know how I feel about it. I’m not saying this is bad. I have got to know a lot of neurotypicals in my years and I can honestly say, there is not one I would want to be like…lol. So, I’m okay with being on the spectrum. When i wrote Autism Spectrum Disorder, the word that I kept staring at was Disorder. Really? This is a disorder? I want to look up what that means. Wait a second…okay a medical condition involving a disturbance to the usual functioning of the mind.

Okay. I will let that process.

Who says how we process and what we do is a distrubance. Okay. I get that things are not right. But who says that neurotypical brains are just that…typical?…

Just a question. Image

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Square peg

This fits for those of us who are FASD. So many times society wants us to fit into society the way they fit. FASD people are absolutely that different peg. We come in all shapes and sizes and we don’t fit into society’s norm. I know personally employers, friends, and even family will try to shape us to fit into what makes sense to them and we are simply wired differently and it ain’t happenin…lol…
The best gift anyone can give any of us with FASD is meet us where we are, love us right where we live. We all need to change and be shaped in life. Nothing wrong with that, but do it with us and accept our disabilities and allow us to function within those parameters.  Frustration is not our friend. When we feel like we need to be different than who we are or the people around us don’t understand us or that the harder we try, the more we disappoint you, meltdowns will occur. 
If we know you will allow us to be who we are, that we don’t have to be pounded into a shape that fits for you, then frustration will be down and growth will be off the charts.
We want to please! If we know you are not pleased with us, then we are crushed. Our entire being wants to be accepted for the square peg that we are. Square, rectangular, triangular, many shaped forms of FASD..
The world is blessed with many different shapes and sizes of people. Our creativity and love for others is so deep …that could be lost if you try to conform us into the rest of society. FASD individuals have a lot of great gifts and talents!!  We are great contributors in society!!