This fits for those of us who are FASD. So many times society wants us to fit into society the way they fit. FASD people are absolutely that different peg. We come in all shapes and sizes and we don’t fit into society’s norm. I know personally employers, friends, and even family will try to shape us to fit into what makes sense to them and we are simply wired differently and it ain’t happenin…lol…
The best gift anyone can give any of us with FASD is meet us where we are, love us right where we live. We all need to change and be shaped in life. Nothing wrong with that, but do it with us and accept our disabilities and allow us to function within those parameters. Frustration is not our friend. When we feel like we need to be different than who we are or the people around us don’t understand us or that the harder we try, the more we disappoint you, meltdowns will occur.
If we know you will allow us to be who we are, that we don’t have to be pounded into a shape that fits for you, then frustration will be down and growth will be off the charts.
We want to please! If we know you are not pleased with us, then we are crushed. Our entire being wants to be accepted for the square peg that we are. Square, rectangular, triangular, many shaped forms of FASD..
The world is blessed with many different shapes and sizes of people. Our creativity and love for others is so deep …that could be lost if you try to conform us into the rest of society. FASD individuals have a lot of great gifts and talents!! We are great contributors in society!!